Sex is good. It is nice, mind blowing and exciting. But, still cannot understand people who are willing to commit adultery, despite their loving second halves. What I mean is that even when they are happily married, they do look for that additional adrenalin, which actually irreversibly taints their marriage, not depending on if they got caught or not. Lies or secrets will surface sooner or later.I just ask them Why would you ruin your beautiful life and family just for 20 minute excitement? They probably don't understand what I mean. Typical answer would be I just have to be careful enough to never get caught with a smile.
The real question is Are you cheating on your spouse or just yourself?
I'm not talking about sex itself. It's the actual commitment to have sex outside of marital relationship is troubles me a lot.
Sex or no sex? What happens when you cannot get satisfaction from your partner in life? When you don't love the husband/wife anymore?
So many questions, and I just don't know how to answer them, but deep in my heart I will know that I'm cheating myself, rather than my husband when and IF I commit adultery.
Please forgive me God!
I'm not talking about sex itself. It's the actual commitment to have sex outside of marital relationship is troubles me a lot.
Sex or no sex? What happens when you cannot get satisfaction from your partner in life? When you don't love the husband/wife anymore?
So many questions, and I just don't know how to answer them, but deep in my heart I will know that I'm cheating myself, rather than my husband when and IF I commit adultery.
Please forgive me God!
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